Much more likely, they’re the coworker, friend, ex, or
family member who makes your brain hurt. You walk away from them feeling
confused, self-conscious, and doubting your own intuition.
Psychopaths are experts at making their chosen target
feel “special.”
Psychopaths are shape-shifting chameleons who
constantly rearrange their personalities depending on your individual needs.
Psychopaths intentionally cause chaos, then sit back,
play innocent, and blame you for reacting. They will provoke you, and then when
you (understandably) react, they’ll patronizingly inform you that they’re “not
having this discussion with you again.” Eventually, you’ll start to feel like a
hypersensitive nutcase.
They are so used to shifting personas and stories that
lying becomes the default mode for them. If you ever question these lies (even
if you have proof), they will promptly turn it back around on you for being
paranoid and over-analyzing everything.
Normal people feel intense remorse when they do things
that psychopaths do (lie, cheat, steal, manipulate). Psychopaths know that
their behavior hurts others. That’s why they do it. The only time a psychopath
will ever apologize to you is to save face, or if they still need something
from you. It’s never actually about remorse. Anyone who enjoys inflicting pain
on others or never seems to feel any genuine remorse for hurting others is
someone to cut ties with, immediately. That’s an emotional black hole.
Psychopaths devalue and replace others at the drop of
a hat. Psychopaths have no loyalty, no attachment, and no love. They leave
behind a trail of destruction, and they blame their victims for it every time.
Psychopaths are constantly whispering poison and
gossip into everyone’s ears, making each person feel jealous and suspicious of
the others. Psychopaths want people distracted and in constant competition for
their attention, so they seem in high-demand at all times.
When a psychopath enters your life, you’ll notice an
intense and ever-increasing sense of dread and self-doubt. Your brain will
struggle to reconcile the “perfect” person from the beginning with the
inappropriate behavior you’re starting to see more regularly. That’s because
that perfect person never actually existed. It was a persona, created just for
you. This is the hardest thing for our minds and hearts to understand.
Psychopaths have this innate ability to make you feel
like there’s something wrong with you for recognizing that there’s something
off about them.
So how can you protect yourself?
Having a Constant /a person or an imaginary friend
whom you trust with your whole heart/ allows you to recognize the common denominator
when you feel “crazy.”
Around these toxic people, you’ll start to think,
“gosh I feel jealous or crazy or needy.” But do you feel that way around your
Constant? Probably not. So what’s the difference between your constant and this
person who makes you feel like garbage?
Eventually, with enough practice and validation,
you’ll probably start to realize that you’ve become your own Constant. And that
is a pretty cool place to be!
The good news is that when a psychopath tries to make
you doubt your intuition, it means your intuition was causing them trouble.
Psychopaths seek to psychologically destroy anyone who might threaten their illusion
of normalcy to the world.
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технологиите, да учим психология от 1ви клас и да контролираме раждаемостта, за
да ограничим болката и увеличим хармонията.